Adam and I will be going out to dinner tonight to celebrate our 2nd year anniversary married. The crazy part is that we have been together for 9 years, that’s just about a third of our lives together, my little brother was only a year old when we started dating…he is now turning 11 the end of this year (Whoa!). Last night, while holding each other in our arms, we talked about the concept of “falling in love” and how we do not believe in that concept. It was funny, he was telling me about the conversation he had with a new employee at his work about our relationship. Adam told him our story and in response the gentleman said “So what’s it like finding the ONE?” and Adam’s response was “I didn’t, I chose her to be the ONE over time but I did not find her and decide at that moment she was the one, that would be like love at first sight and that isn’t real to me…” The guy was confused but after a slight explanation he was impressed. “Growing” to love someone, now that’s what we are talking about!!! If you can fall in love then you can fall out just as easy as you fell in right…but if you work hard at your relationship and continue to grow together and create new memories your love will grow with you. Our love and our relationship is number one and we take great pride in our relationship. This should be the case for all couples and it can be! Support each other at all times and ALWAYS, ALWAYS communicate! That’s a great place to start! Congratulations to all other couples that are working everyday to make their relationship the best!
I love you Adam, you are an amazing man!
